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💑 Relationships Benchmarks
Dating, social life and communication patterns. 16 data-driven tools to see where you stand.
Do I have enough close friends?
See how your number of close friends compares to research.
Check your percentile →Am I spending too much on dates?
Compare your average date night cost to other couples.
Check your percentile →Do we spend enough time together?
Compare your weekly quality time to relationship research.
Check your percentile →Do we fight too much?
Average couple argues 312 times per year.
Check your percentile →Is my relationship healthy?
The Gottman method predicts divorce with 94% accuracy.
Check your percentile →Do couples text enough?
How often is normal in the smartphone era?
Check your percentile →How much rizz do I have?
Only 12% of people have "unspoken rizz".
Check your percentile →How many red flags do I have?
The average person has 3-4 dating red flags.
Check your percentile →How much of an ick am I?
73% of people have given someone the ick without knowing.
Check your percentile →How bad are my trust issues?
Only 30% of adults say they fully trust their partner.
Check your percentile →Am I in a situationship?
Over 50% of young adults have been in a situationship without realizing it.
Check your percentile →Am I being love-bombed?
Love bombing precedes 75% of narcissistic relationship cycles.
Check your percentile →Am I being breadcrumbed?
Breadcrumbing keeps you hooked with minimal effort — 40% of daters experience it.
Check your percentile →Am I codependent?
Up to 40% of adults show codependent patterns — losing yourself in someone else's needs.
Check your percentile →Am I being gaslighted?
33% of adults have experienced gaslighting in a relationship — most didn't recognize it.
Check your percentile →How anxiously attached am I?
20% of adults have anxious attachment — the fear that love will disappear.
Check your percentile →