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Am I Normal?

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Explore all 31 categories โ€” each with curated benchmarks and data sources

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Money

Savings, spending, debt and net worth

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Housing

Rent, mortgage, utilities and living costs

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Career

Salary, work hours, commute and job satisfaction

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Health

Body stats, sleep, exercise and vital signs

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Lifestyle

Screen time, hobbies, travel and daily habits

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Family

Kids, childcare costs, education and milestones

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Auto

Car costs, fuel, mileage and insurance

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Food

Grocery bills, eating out and food waste

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Tech

Subscriptions, data usage and device spending

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Relationships

Dating, social life and communication patterns

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Do I have enough close friends?

See how your number of close friends compares to research.

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Am I spending too much on dates?

Compare your average date night cost to other couples.

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Do we spend enough time together?

Compare your weekly quality time to relationship research.

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Do we fight too much?

Average couple argues 312 times per year.

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Is my relationship healthy?

The Gottman method predicts divorce with 94% accuracy.

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Do couples text enough?

How often is normal in the smartphone era?

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How much rizz do I have?

Only 12% of people have "unspoken rizz".

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How many red flags do I have?

The average person has 3-4 dating red flags.

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How much of an ick am I?

73% of people have given someone the ick without knowing.

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How bad are my trust issues?

Only 30% of adults say they fully trust their partner.

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Am I in a situationship?

Over 50% of young adults have been in a situationship without realizing it.

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Am I being love-bombed?

Love bombing precedes 75% of narcissistic relationship cycles.

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Am I being breadcrumbed?

Breadcrumbing keeps you hooked with minimal effort โ€” 40% of daters experience it.

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Am I codependent?

Up to 40% of adults show codependent patterns โ€” losing yourself in someone else's needs.

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Am I being gaslighted?

33% of adults have experienced gaslighting in a relationship โ€” most didn't recognize it.

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How anxiously attached am I?

20% of adults have anxious attachment โ€” the fear that love will disappear.

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Fitness

Strength, endurance, flexibility and body composition

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Education

Student debt, study habits and learning benchmarks

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Environment

Carbon footprint, water and energy use

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Time Use

How you spend your 24 hours compared to others

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Pets

Pet costs, vet bills and care time

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Sex & Intimacy

Frequency, satisfaction and intimate benchmarks

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Hygiene & Habits

Shower habits, hygiene routines and guilty secrets

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Life Milestones

Moving out, marriage, kids and life firsts

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Mental Health

Anxiety, stress, happiness and emotional wellbeing

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Body & Appearance

Height, weight, proportions and body stats

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Psychology

Dark traits, personality patterns and hidden tendencies

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How dark is your personality?

Measure your narcissism, Machiavellianism and psychopathy.

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Are you a narcissist?

Take a quick narcissism screening based on the NPI.

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Do you have psychopathic traits?

Screen for primary and secondary psychopathy traits.

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How manipulative are you?

Measure your Machiavellian tendencies with a proven scale.

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How empathetic are you really?

Measure your cognitive and emotional empathy.

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What is your attachment style?

Discover if you are secure, anxious, avoidant or fearful.

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What is your EQ?

Measure your emotional intelligence across 4 dimensions.

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How introverted are you really?

See where you fall on the introversion-extroversion spectrum.

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Are you a Highly Sensitive Person?

Take Elaine Aron's HSP self-test.

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Do you have impostor syndrome?

Measure your impostor feelings with a clinical scale.

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What is your love language?

Discover how you prefer to give and receive love.

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How burned out are you?

Screen for burnout using the Maslach framework.

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Are you a people-pleaser?

Measure your tendency to prioritize others over yourself.

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Are you sabotaging yourself?

Identify your self-defeating behavior patterns.

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Are you in a toxic relationship?

Screen for emotional manipulation and unhealthy dynamics.

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How toxic am I?

1 in 5 people show high-toxicity patterns.

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How delusional am I?

A little delulu is the solulu โ€” but how much is too much?

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Am I in my villain era?

Setting boundaries gets called villain era โ€” but is it actually healthy?

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Am I a pick me?

Pick-me behavior often masks deep insecurity โ€” 1 in 4 show the pattern.

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Do I have daddy issues?

Father-wound patterns affect up to 40% of adults from disrupted families.

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Do I show toxic femininity patterns?

Toxic femininity uses social manipulation instead of direct aggression.

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Am I emotionally unavailable?

About 25% of adults show avoidant patterns that block emotional connection.

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Am I a covert narcissist?

Covert narcissism hides behind humility โ€” the quiet version of grandiosity.

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Neurodivergent

ADHD, autism spectrum, executive function and sensory processing

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Brain & Cognition

Mental age, memory, attention and cognitive biases

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Digital Wellness

Screen addiction, dopamine, doomscrolling and digital detox

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Sleep

Chronotype, insomnia, sleep quality and dream patterns

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Morality & Ethics

Trolley problems, moral foundations and ethical reasoning

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Trauma & Resilience

ACE score, trauma response, CPTSD and resilience

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Self-Regulation

Procrastination, perfectionism, grit and emotional control

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Communication

Conflict style, assertiveness and apology language

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Personality

Big Five, Enneagram, empathy and emotional age

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Appearance

Face age, skin age, gray hair and aging

What is Am I Normal?

Am I Normal? is a free collection of personal benchmarking tools that lets you compare yourself to real statistical data โ€” not opinions, not guesses. Every comparison uses published data from sources like the OECD, WHO, Federal Reserve, Eurostat, ILO, and national statistics offices.

How it works

Pick a question. Enter your data. Instantly see your percentile โ€” where you rank compared to thousands or millions of others in your demographic. No signup, no uploads, no tracking. Your data stays in your browser.

Why percentiles matter

Averages lie. If the average salary in your country is $55,000, that tells you nothing about whether YOUR salary is good for your age, city, and profession. Percentiles show you the full picture: "You earn more than 72% of people in your group."

Data sources and methodology

Each benchmark page lists its exact data sources. We use the most recent available data from government statistics agencies, international organizations (OECD, WHO, ILO, World Bank), peer-reviewed research, and reputable survey organizations (Pew Research, Gallup, GWI). We never use self-reported internet polls.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is my data safe?

Yes. Everything runs in your browser. We never collect, store, or transmit the numbers you enter. There is no backend, no database, no analytics on your inputs. We physically cannot see what you type.

How accurate are the comparisons?

As accurate as the source data allows. Government statistics and WHO data are the gold standard for population-level comparisons. Individual results may vary โ€” these tools show where you fall statistically, not where you "should" be. Use them as a starting point for reflection, not as a diagnosis.

Can I compare across countries?

Many benchmarks include country selection. Where country-specific data is available, we use it. Where only global or regional data exists, we note the scope clearly on each page.